From: "The Professor"
To: <trentoncreativeenterprises@charter.net>
Sent: March 2, 2026 at 3:13 PM MST
Subject: The Harmonica Band
Dear Mr. Ellis,
First, thank you for your website and the hard work you have put into it!!!! I have thoroughly enjoyed flipping thru the many pages.
Second, I am attaching a picture of my father, Melvin H. Young (aka "Sunny" Young, or "Sunny-Boy" Young) when he was probably nine or ten years old. He is pictured with his older brother, Otto Young, in front of (I think) the boarding house near Firestone Mill that the boys' mother, Mrs. Minnie Coker Young, ran back in the twenties. Dad was born in May of 1914, so at ten this would be 1924, more or less. The picture is so clean because several years ago I had it retouched by a professional.
Please compare this pic of my dad to the two pics of the Harmonica Band, one of which I have cropped to highlight the boy that I'm pretty sure is my dad.
Pop told me a number of times that he played in that harmonica band directed by Mr. Abernethy. Mr. Abernethy also taught dad penmanship, and therefore, unlike me, Dad had a very nice handwriting. He also attended, obviously, West School, which became Abernethy. And that's the name of the school I attended from 1959 to 1964/1965, when I finished 6th grade and then went to Arlington Junior High.
I find it humorous that dad never said word one about those uniforms Mr. Abernethy had the boys wear!!! Dad was always a really good dresser, and the fact that he never talked about that uniform, but did talk about the band, makes me chuckle.
Wee bit of background on Pop: he was the youngest of five, and grew up, from the twenties on, in the Firestone Mill Village. He dropped out of school after the 10th grade (back when there were only 11 grades) to go work in the mill. Dad was extremely good with figures and worked in the paymasters office calculating paychecks, etc. He met mom, Virginia (Ginny) York Young, at Firestone. They married in 1939. Dad served in the Navy, being drafted in 1943. I came along in 1952, and was born in Garrison General Hospital. I was their only child. After the war dad went to work with the Imperial Life Insurance Co, later becoming the Western & Southern Life Insurance Co. After working for them for over twenty years he moved to Public Service Gas Co, where he sold home appliances. In late 1953 Dad bought a very nice, small (two bedroom) brick home at 506 South Webb St. between 3rd and 2nd Ave.
My grandparents (Carney & Minnie Young) lived with us until they died. We attended West Avenue Presbyterian Church, where both dad and mom taught Sunday School, Mom was involved in the Women of the Church, Dad was on the governing board and was the treasurer. We were there every Sunday morning, and Sunday evening. This was for junior choir and then, when I turned 13, youth group before evening services. We were back at church on Wednesday for evening 'prayer' (a mini-worship service) service and choir rehearsal. Yeah, dad and mom were both in the choir.
Dad was transferred to the new Mt. Holly office close to the old 'Belmont Crossroads' so we moved to Mt. Holly the summer of 1968 to Woodland Park in Mt. Holly, where dad built us a very nice, small brick home. Dad died a little over a year later, the end of November 1969 following major surgery on his stomach to remove a stomach ulcer. He was in the hospital over a month, never came out of ICU. It was now just mom and me against the world.
I did okay, graduating with honors from Mt. Holly High School, where I made new friends and fell head over heels in love with Debby Burris, a very good-looking blonde girl, whose dad was a state patrolman. I went to Davidson, majoring first in music, then switching to history when I got into a fight with music theory and lost. I had long felt the urge to become a Presbyterian minister, but had ignored it and tried to put it away; it would not go away. I gave in and went to seminary, Union Theological and the Presbyterian School of Christian Education (both in Richmond, VA), getting both my Master's and my Doctor of Ministry.
I served as a Presbyterian minister for over 41 years. Debby Burris and I came apart starting in my sophomore year at Davidson, and we went our separate ways my junior year. I married a great gal I met when I was the paid bass soloist at Second Presbyterian Church in Richmond, VA. She was one of the paid soprano soloists. We had four daughters and stayed married for 32 years, then she asked me for a divorce.
This was hard. I shifted into doing interim work and continued my work in the church, finally retiring in the spring of 2021 to Staunton, VA, twenty miles west of Charlottesville, in the southern art of the Shenandoah Valley. Amazingly enough, through some interesting circumstances, I reconnected with Debby Burris (now Debby Hartness) in the spring and summer of 2024. I had been divorced over ten years by then, had not dated, had not connected with anyone, and actually was enjoying being by myself. But, God has a serious sense of humor, and we began seeing each other, she now a widow. We married in September of 2025, and I moved into Debby's new home at 313 Lifestyle Court, Gastonia, NC 28056. It's a 55+ community in Cramerton. What goes around, comes around, right?
So here I am, back in Gastonia and Gaston County. I've not been back here, save to visit my mom sometimes in Mt. Holly, and she passed in 2001, in 57 years. Man, have things changed!!!! Especially downtown, or 'old' Gastonia. New Gastonia begins at Cox Rd on Wilkerson Blvd and goes to Red Bud. And Firestone (now Loray, but to me it'll always be Firestone) is upscale apts. The textile industry is no more. I didn't recognize the area where I used to buy my comics at Dick McCluny's Gaston News Stand (I think that's what he called it) over on Airline, just across the tracks behind the center of town (i.e. Belk’s, the Lawyer's Bldg.) He later moved to a smaller place on Main St, just a couple of doors 'down' (i.e. towards the A & P, or Miles' Lunch) from Kress, on the same side of main street as Kress, but before you crossed the street to go to Miles'. Always bought my plastic models (mostly of Universal Monsters and WWII Navy ships, but an occasional automobile) at Kress or Woolworth. Used to buy Kites at Eagles dime store. Was a Boy Scout at Troop 313 which met at Bradley Memorial Methodist Church, corner of Webb St and Franklin (yeah, I got my Eagle and God & Country). Would have gone to Hunter Huss, but went to Mt. Holly.
How things have changed! I'm still in something of a shock. South Boulevard is a serious mess where we are, with all of the new homes, new people, etc. Still can't believe Gastonia LOWERED the railroad tracks! That still blows my mind. The one seriously good thing I've discovered is that old Crowders Mountain, where we used to camp and where the scouts had their annual Spring Camporee, and where we had Sunrise Service at the top near the radio towers, is now a State Park. Kudos to those college kids, and citizens who told that mining company to take a hike. I've lived in Waynesboro, VA, where the nearby mountain WAS strip-mined, and it was horrible. (Thankfully now it's been allowed to 'grow' back) And Tony's is still here, thank God. But Lineberger’s Fish camp is not (Amber Jack's is just not the same), Twin Tops is mostly take out (sigh. . .) Captain’s Cap, on Linwood Rd is still pretty good.
But, OMG what happened to Webb Street? Holy crap!!!! Mr. Ellis, IT'S A SLUM!!!!!! That whole Parkdale area is a slum!!! Yeah, Parkdale Mill Village was a mill village, but it was fairly neat, and clean (with a couple of exceptions), but now? And my old home, where I grew up? 506 Webb St? Sheeeeeeeesh. . .
Anyway, thank you for all your work. I hope that you can somehow use the photos.
---Rev. Dr. James R M Young
Heh, when I lived in Gastonia (1953 - 1968) I was known as Jamie Young. I changed that to Jim Young when I moved to Mt. Holly. Jamie just sounded too sissy for me. It was only much later that I discovered it's a common nickname for James particularly in Scotland, with grown men, young and old, proudly calling themselves by this nickname.
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